I could never say that “the odds are against her.” Just like I’d never tell someone they couldn’t accomplish a goal.

Two days is early on, but how will she ever know if she never tries? I’m very smart and got involved with an older guy who will soon be my fiance. We’ve been together for 3.5 years – I could’ve never found such an amazing man. Looking for love in unusual or unexpected places can be very, very rewarding.

How boring would life be if we never took risks?

I say, follow your heart. I did, and I’m happier than ever.

And PS – Believe it or not, not all guys just want “a lay.”