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Am I supposed to be waiting?

I can only think of excuses as to why it hasn’t happened yet, and they don’t really make sense. I don’t understand. Half of my friends aren’t even virgins anymore and I still have never been kissed. Not even on the cheek or anything. I really think I’m kind of picky about boys though, but I think it’s just a fantasy I need to get my head out of. It seems like all the other girls who have been kissed or have boyfriends aren’t even half as smart or friendly as I am. I feel like now is when I have to put some effort into it. I always just kind of though a price charming kind of thing would happen without me even trying. But maybe I’m not supposed to be waiting.

Oct 15, 2006, 01:56PM PDT | 3 cheers


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Ittybritty

I’m on the exact same page as you. Girls all around me are hooking up and getting and dropping boyfriends like anything and it’s majorly depressing. I’ve found it’s the eloquent, pretty, truly nice girls who are always last. Don’t let it get to you though, there’s no use kissing some guy you don’t even like, if you’ve waited this long it’s better to keep waiting for something perfect than to blow it all on nothing. I haven’t got any advice… it just might be nice knowing you aren’t the only one.

Nov 09, 2006, 01:22AM PST | Respond to this 1 cheer

teachmetolove is getting it done!

YES! See, you definetely know how it is! Thats really comforting to hear. I agree infinity percent with you. I’m getting pretty content with waiting so I feel like when it is time for it to happen I’m going to freak out haha. But still, you’re in the same boat, so we’re in this together! Like a race, only not at all. A waiting race? Haha, you understand..

Nov 09, 2006, 03:02PM PST | Thread | Respond to this

Ittybritty

Ha, a waiting race, that’s gotta be interesting. But heck that’s what it’s come down to… and I’ll probably be waiting for a loooong while more seeing as I can’t talk to guys. I blush when my friends come up behind me and whisper ‘boys’ in my ear! Small talk, or my incapability to do, is my bane. Cruel fate, waiting sucks. But it’s all worth it, right? RIGHT?! Ok. Yeah I mustn’t freak out…

Nov 10, 2006, 12:48AM PST | Thread | Respond to this

teachmetolove is getting it done!

Oh, you can’t talk to guys either? Hi, join the club here. I don’t know why I can’t, I mean, all the boys I know are seriously dumb. So wow, I’m intimidated by stupidity. Bravo, really. I’m actually naive enough to believe that my soul mate is going to prance up to me in a restaurant or something and talk to me while having the patience to wait for me to get over my fear of talking back. Ahh. Oh god, why us?

Nov 11, 2006, 02:04PM PST | Thread | Respond to this

ajmeelan

he will

I hope I’m not intruding. I just wanted to say I think this conversation is amazing in a million ways (it’s inspiring to see people haveing a meaningful conversation). —And he will walk up to you. Right now, the guys you like are probably too immature to talk to you, they’d rather go to the girls that have mastered that art of giggling and talking about nothing (because that is easy). But that’s not what the right guy wants. And eventually he will talk to you. And if he has the patience to stick around until you are comfortable with him, then I think it’ll pay off, because from what you’ve said here, you seem like a really intelegent, self-reflective person, and I don’t think there are enough of you around.

Jan 10, 2007, 06:42PM PST | Thread | Respond to this

Most definitely not intruding! - teachmetolove

 

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