Learn to say no (read all 2 entries…)
Am I too nice?

Today I’ve had it!!! Seriously, I think I might go crazy! I keep on saying OK, OK, OK to everything and everyone. Right now I’m doing somebody else’s work because the other person’s has “loads of work”. I want to talk to my boss about it, but I don’t want to sound like a whiner or quitter. It’s a hard situation I guess but I’m even getting sick because of it, and I know it’s insane. I HAVE TO START SAYING NO!! Everyone tells me I can be TOO NICE! Am I really beeing too nice? Well, if I am, it’s not making me happier… :(



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Also having a hard time saying no

It seems like for me NO is a word that is not in my vocabulary. Especially, when someone gets mad at me if i don’t do what they want me to do.

My nephew called and asked me to pick up his brother from school, although, I could have I said why didn’t his mother call and ask me? After saying that to him he said okay, then I’ll do it, but never ask me to do anything for you, and don’t call back. So needless to say I deleated his number from my phone.
Now i feel guilty since i told him NO.


 

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