please help!!!!
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you are welcome
i don’t think you should change how you love or how much of yourself you give to another person, those are wonderful qualities to have.
i am positive you will find someone who will appreciate all of what you have to offer. that in itself will make all of this sadness that you are feeling now worth it. it will make you appreciate the happiness that much more. stay strong and you will be ok! =)
=)jee thanks
I appreciate your advice…i would take it to heart =) thanks a lot.
Sorry if i would like to share with you another thing....my this friend is hurting me badly....kept on irritating me...online...and when he is real life he is a different person all altogether like we are just the border of friends and not friends.Hiahz i’m just so sad….that i’m trying to work out friendship but he is rejecting it all along…i’m very angry….that he just wanted to create hatred so tht i’ll be angry with him.
he is not willing to accept me as a friend…so i ignored him…but then he irritate me when he see me online….
Sometimes i really dont know how to react to this like of so called “friend”. mrc53 thank you for your help…really means a lot to me….
cheers pal =)
anytime cayosura i am glad that my advice was helpful to you. =)
it sounds to me as if your “friend” is quite immature. but that is my outsider point of view.
my advice would be to confront him about how you feel. mention to him what you just said to me; for example how you think he acts differently to you in real life then when you are online. how his behavior might annoy you sometimes, etc… he might not be aware of how he is acting towards you. if he continues to treat you the same i would say he is not taking your feelings into consideration.
from my personal experiences with friends i always feel that if a friend is causing more drama then happiness at what point is it worth being friends with that person?
you are right.
but like you asked me to let him know about it. I’ve already told him about how irritated am i about his attitude. But he just told me that he was doing it only towards me and he is very good to other people. He say whether i believe it or not…it is up to me.
I’m so sad…then today again he nudge me in msn. i wondered why he just want to have something to irritate me.
if he wants to just irritate me…i’ll rather do not want to hurt myself by replying him. He’ll just end up battle of words with me for no reasons.
Always say that i’m stupid and a lot of other not so nice words to say and i hate that but i also dont want to lose him as a friend. coz deep down i still care for him.
coz i think he is very pityful coz he do not like to accept ppl’s view about him.
no offense but your friend sounds like a jerk. especially the way he talks to you.
what kind of friend calls another friend names? that’s not a nice way to treat someone. it sounds like there is a lack of respect going on here.
you don’t deserve to be someone’s punching bag. what’s his problem anyway?

