my fiance used to drink a lot. he quit over three years ago and had done a great job of staying sober. Recently he had his first relapse and i am scared to death. While drinking, he used to lie a lot. He did a lot of bad things while drinking that he absolutely wouldn’t do while sober. He says he is still done with drinking even after the relapse. I believe him because it was only one night and he got sick….and he admitted to me that night that it happened. My problem now is trying to get back that trust that we created over the last three years. I don’t want him to go back to the way things used to be.