To go to club nights/events/exhibitions/music things such as cough cool, crystal nights &c. &c. &c. I need friends to go with who would be interested. All my friends can’t be bothered with this kind of thing/find it pretentious/ leave early/ act awkward. John is impatient and prefers to do more solipsistic activities that do not involve social interaction. Jahed is shy and unlikely to attempt to make new friends in a new environment. Selina would come if I persuaded her but when I’m with her I find it easy to go off by myself and she’s not good for making new friends, or less I feel like if we’re meeting up I should be spending my time with her. The only one who it works to go out with is Osama. Even with him, he generally knows someone everywhere, but ussually just looking for hot girls.
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i know what you mean! my friends are happy going to a pub while i’d rather do what your on to!
it’s bloody frustrating, especially because my interests don’t fall into any particular category i just like to try new things with fun, interesting people. I’m discovering increasingly that many of my friends and I have different definitions of what is exciting and fun. Nevertheless, on the plus side it has led me to make a lot of new friends (as well as maintaining the old ones), so say i want to do something music-related- I have music friends for that, or art related- I have art friends for that, if i want to get drunk- school friends, and so forth. But it would still be nice to have a centralised group of friends who have a similar core of interests (maybe this is a bit of a pipe dream).
