Every so often I’ve entertained the idea of having a threesome with the boyfriend. Recently it’s been brought to our attention that an aquaintance is interested in having one herself. I agree with my boyfriend that since we’re both still in that college/grad school phase, this is the best time to really have fun.
However curious and interested I am about threesomes, I have some reservations. We’re in a very small college town setting where everyone knows everything. I’m concerned about how exactly we would go about approaching this girl. I don’t imagine going up to her “Hey, how’s it going, so I heard you want to have a threesome.” I’m also concerned about setting any “rules” for a threesome between me and my boyfriend…penetration or no, and things of the like, as well as any positive and negative impacts it could have on our relationship.
Any feedback would be greatly helpful. Thanks.
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3 years ago
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P.S i forgot to answer...
Jimmy,
I was answering having already been there, what seems now like many years ago, about 10 now it seems. I would have to say that I was not secure in my relationship back then, but even so am happy to have had the experience, even with being left aside on the subsequent occasions and having had them get together without me.
Now totally secure in my relationship I would be cool with it, just that the kids might make it hard these days LOL!
The problem is too many people mistake sex for love. The rules I was talking about wasn’t for the act itself but for way it is approached. You have to be cool with how it is going to impact your initial relationship to get into the craziness I reckon.
