Bee wishes you all Happy New Year! CHEERS! See you in 2010...... Peace On Earth, Good Will to All

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Relationship????? 17 months ago

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am not ready for another one of THOSE just yet. But a gal has needs, and I am also not ready to only be having sex with myself, as great as that may be. I am in my sexual prime for God’s sake…...I am not going to waste it.

But how does one go about this? I don’t know how to meet men anymore, and I am not a bar person. I tried local personals…...an unmitigated disaster. The responses to my ad freaked me out, so I removed it. Sigh.

Dear God/Goddess: Please send me a hot man with no STD’s and a willingness to practice safe but kinky sex. Tall, dark and handsome would be nice, as well as chest hair and a Harley Davidson. (Is that asking too much, ya think???)

Jul 15, 2008, 02:09PM PDT | 11 cheers


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nicolasc needs to incorporate more fruits and vegetables into her being. After all, you are what you eat....no, wait...

I was just going to point this out.

You have to be very careful, because you never know if someone is going to turn weird on you. It seems like men in particular get biologically possessive. I’m not into the whole casual sex thing personally, so I’m not speaking from experience, but it’s just something I’ve observed.

Jul 21, 2008, 12:13PM PDT | Parent | Respond to this 2 cheers

Bee wishes you all Happy New Year! CHEERS! See you in 2010...... Peace On Earth, Good Will to All

Yes, that goes without saying, that one must err on the side of caution when considering this type of relationship. Entering into a consensual casual sexual union doesn’t mean you’re entering into it blindly or blithely, without rules, protection, boundaries and self respect. I have normal, healthy needs, yes, but I also have a life to protect.

I have also seen just as many women become eerily and almost crazily possessive of their male companions (though I have never been one to behave so) thus I don’t believe that kind of possessiveness to be the exclusive domain, biolgically speaking, of males. I think that trait has more to do with an individuals own sense of self worth, self esteem, maturity and confidence, rather, the lack thereof, not necessarily their gender.

Jul 21, 2008, 01:26PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

nicolasc needs to incorporate more fruits and vegetables into her being. After all, you are what you eat....no, wait...

You're right.

Good points.

Jul 21, 2008, 08:01PM PDT | Respond to this 1 cheer

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Jul 21, 2008, 03:39PM PDT

nicolasc needs to incorporate more fruits and vegetables into her being. After all, you are what you eat....no, wait...

No worries. I assumed it was at least half-joking, but

I do know a couple of people who do do the sex party or casual pick-up thing, and I know you have to be careful. What other people do is up to them, it’s just not something I’m into.

Jul 21, 2008, 06:25PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 2 cheers

Hawk~

these other people...

do they have telephones?

:)

j/k…in case anyone’s watchin…

Jul 21, 2008, 09:19PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 3 cheers

nicolasc needs to incorporate more fruits and vegetables into her being. After all, you are what you eat....no, wait...

Why, yes, they do.

In fact, they’re quite considerate. I’m sure they’d be more than happy to give Lady Hawk a call if you were to take a wrong turn and, in your confused state, inadvertently show up at one of their gatherings.

That was the nature of your inquiry, was it not?

;-p

Jul 22, 2008, 12:24AM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 3 cheers

Hey! - Hawk~

Bee wishes you all Happy New Year! CHEERS! See you in 2010...... Peace On Earth, Good Will to All

Ha ha ha ha!!!!!!! Can you swing by and pick me up on the way to the party?? I just bought this beautiful little black dress…......

Jul 22, 2008, 08:15AM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

On the way? - Hawk~
Untitled - Bee wishes you all Happy New Year! CHEERS! See you in 2010......

Bee wishes you all Happy New Year! CHEERS! See you in 2010...... Peace On Earth, Good Will to All

BS? Where? Ha ha ha ha!!!!!!! Are you calling me a bullshit artist? OMG!! An “artiste”, one of my highest aspirations! Why thank you, thank you very much!! (Bows, curtsies and blows kisses first to D7, then to the audience that has assembled to hear their banter about casual sex and the naming of sex toys…..)

PS I sent you another PM yesterday; doesn’t require a response, however, wondering if you got it as I wasn’t receiving messages for a few days myself. Were you? I see/note that there are bugs and or ghosts in the machine on this site still. How terribly annoying and inconvenient…...ah, but I do love the ‘bots, especially my “bot-crush” Daniel Spils.

Jul 22, 2008, 08:24AM PDT | Respond to this


 

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