she says adults rarely look for new friends and it will be hard for me to find friends, because everyone is married, or already has enough friends, or is too busy parenting and working, and so on and so on. no one will want to invest in forming a new friendship at this age, she says.

i have to believe she’s wrong. I have to believe that I’m not the only one whose finding myself at the age of 34 needing to begin new relationships and start a new sort of life.

I hope I can brainstorm some good ways to meet kindred spirits.