Jenny,
I’ve never done it, but with the right lady, I’m more than willing to try. If you want to do it, then do it, girl! Surely you can find a guy that you can get together with you and your hubby for a threesome with the purpose of making this happen, as long as you’re up front about it with your third that this is what you want as part of it and it is a condition for it and he’s cool with it. What about the guy you had the threesome with before? Two guys turned on and erect over you and desiring you at the same time? Holy Girl Power, Batman! (wished we lived closer)

Go for it, Girl!