keep my virginity until I'm married (read all 2 entries…)
Puzzled 12 months ago

Where do you find a guy who is willing to wait? Its so impossible to find one. Once they know I want to wait they leave. Or should I try a kind of open relationship where he can sleep with other women but just not me? And what is the deal with sexual compatibility which people believe should be known before marriage?
I don’t want to expect much but I do hope if I do get married he will appreciate the fact that I waited for him because guys nowadays don’t really seem to care anymore.



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he'll find you

Every guy I dated broke up with me because he didn’t want to wait. Then I met the man who is now my husband, and when we had “the talk” he was actually relieved! He was so tired of girls he had dated using sex to manipulate & drag him along.

All that crap about “test driving the car” is a lie. When you’re with the right person, everything works out just fine.

Don’t worry about searching for that perfect guy. When the time is right, you will find each other.

Thanks for comment. I really needed to hear something like that.

HEHinze is editing my novel for the final time!

This is so true, thanks for posting this. Truthfully, I’ve always been worried about my future husband not still having his virginity. I’m glad you and your husband agree.

P.S. Yes, that ‘testing the car’ crude is a lie. It’s not what you’re ‘buying’ the car for.


 

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