i have never been in a REAL relationship and i have reasons why..1 is cuz im scared..2 is cuz i like to be alone…3 is cuz i have always went on “im only young and theres NO way im gonna fall in love at this age..and be with this person for the rest of my life so why be with them now cuz no matter what it has to end” crazy eh but think about that its sooo true and..i dont really understand why some ppl be with someone for 3 years when they r like 16 they have to know that its gonna end someday u cant possible find ur soul mate at that age can u? is it ture that u might really end up with ur first love? or will it just hurt in the end like it always does? i dont really understand it…but i am in love right now and im not going out with this guy..as much as i want it to work…is this someone i want to spend the rest of my life with? if not then why go out with them?....maybe cuz i love him?....but it will have to end and i will get hurt no matter what so why be with him?....apparently im messed up eh…sorry but im just really scared and confussed?? i dont understand????anyone?
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Why are you thinking about the end?
Why we are living then if anyone after somewhat years we are going to die? Why do we go on vacation if at the end it would be painful to go back home? Because it is worth it! And why are you thinking about being hurt? Maybe you will dump a poor guy at the end?:)
Do not be afraid – the point of living is to experience the life to the fullest!
Thank You..that made a lot of sence and i cant i also realized that u can be in a relationship just to have fun and be with that person…i this guy and i know he likes me and if i have the chance to make things work im gonna!! and im gonna try so hard for things to be good..and not think that hes not the one..and to tell u the truth..if i had to marry someone right now and not have even gone on a date with them i would pick him and i could see me with him in the end and maybe till the end…this really could work…and im gonna have fun with this and not think about the hurt at the end..cuz i can deal with it when and if it happens THANKS SO MUCH….
