I have wanted to leave my marraige for over 10 years. I feel like a fool just writing that. But things are not that bad and there is no one major reason that I can point to and say THIS is the reason I am leaving. But things are not that good and this is not the way I want to live. He wouldn’t say things are going well, but he would rather be married than not. In order to leave I have to dive in to things I have always tried to avoid, namely conflict, discomfort, change.