Wow. I’m your first customer service file? What an awesome responsibility.

I love the idea that suggesting a suggestion box creates a suggestion box. That perfectly encapsulates the brilliance of your site.

BTW my husband and I have been invited to scads of these friendster type sites and this is the first one I find compelling. You’re really onto something.

Re: the how to add a completed goal, I figured out a workaround: add a goal that you want to do, then say you’ve completed it. Doing this requires keeping one’s 43rd spot open, however. (And being a bit compulsive I really wanted a complete list of 43.)

Re: goals that mean the same thing - it seems like your tag system should be able to accomplish that - or would if you grouped goals with overlapping tags—but then I guess you have the problem of people using different tag keywords, too. I recently bloggeda discussion of keyword standardization challenges. It does seem like something the W3C could usefully think about.