My name is Tartsy. I have poured five years of my life into this site. At first, I thrived on anonymity (and still won’t mix my 43T & FB feeds) but over the years I’ve developed some wonderful and true friends. We’ve supported each other through tragedies & triumphs.

Recently I’ve discovered that a dear friend has been getting bullied here and I’ve also witnessed other odd scenarios play out on 43T… I am not a fan of what this site has become over the years. It’s become more of a social gathering site (i.e. popularity contest/ego feeding machine) opposed to a site for working on personal goals.

I’m saddened.

As time marches on I’ve walked away & based on recent developments, I’m glad. I still stop by once in awhile but it isn’t the same. To those I’ve known for years, thank you for helping me over some crazy stuff. Your cheers and comments have helped immeasurably and I can’t express enough gratitude! Thank you for befriending an asshat in her weakest moments and oddest situations. Your advice has helped hugely and with the communities support I’ve completed major goals both personal and fun.

I’ll probably fade away for a bit but I’ll be around…

Be good to one another!!