(Downbeat given to Waltz orchestra, takes you in my arms.)

What I mean is, what does “slept with” really mean? Is it Bill Clinton’s aid-under-the-desk? A fumble and grope-to-something in the back seat of the parental car after the prom? Is it the standing full-body make-out session conducted in the women’s room of an underpopulated lounge, elevaor, library stacks, stairwell, deserted hallway and the like, when the spirit moves the adventerous to pursue semi-private intimacies? Is “sleeping with” actual intercourse, with fulfillment, for both people? Or does intercourse inter-rupt-us, where orgasm does not occur, count? Is it heavy petting (the infamous and poorly phrased “dry-hump” of save-it-till marriage comes to mind too. Or, as you note, does the literal, intimate, non-sexual sleep-with even count since intercourse is presumed in the original question.And then there is prostitution (of all sorts), experimentations (of all sorts), “what did I do last night?” drunken party engagements (of all sorts)

I did not mean to imply Wilt Chamberlain statistics, for I have not sought or valued that, ever.(Waltzes magnificently, movingly, perfectly, better than Dancing With The Stars for We have love all aboot us.) I only meant to offer a hint as to the silliness of the phrase “sleeping with” and question “What’s your number?”