and it helped me to focus. I went overboard with it initially, practically praying to it. Yeesh… but then I let it go and I enjoyed looking at it.

But one thing I did (not sure if it was from the book or not), but I made a list of what I wanted in a partner, and I made it ridiculously specific (because they said to), and then I put the list away. Then about a year after I met my BF I opened it up and he was exactly what I had written down. I should have made it more age descriptive though, because he is a lot older….and age wasn’t on my list :)