My wife and I have been talking about this alot the past couple of weeks. I would like to hear from other married couples about their experiences and how it effected their relationship, both good and bad. She has a girl and a guy picked out. I haven’t met either yet…Not sure about another guy. We’ve been married 8 years and she is very open to almost anything. I hope to get some feedback from anyone, married couples or single people. Thanks!
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about spending non-sexual time...
Just a thought…spening non-sexual time with someone that you may invite for a threesome could be more dangerous than not. Getting to know someone creates a relationship, and your wife may feel as though you could become emotionally involved with this other woman. Be careful. It is sometimes difficult to be casual about sex when you know someone well (that someone NOT being your wife). This is just a woman’s point of view…a woman who had a MMF threesome and happened to know the other man well. In my experience, it was still worth it (because the ecstasy was WOW)...but there was quite a bit of time afterward which was awkward. I rarely talk to the man anymore (because I’m afraid I will like talking to him) and he always looks pained when we’re all in the same room.
Point taken
I never really thought about it that way. I was just thinking that I’d want to see and at least have one conversation with another woman rather than just have my wife bring her home and we all just hop right into bed. But I do understand what you are saying, and I will remember that. All I know of this woman is that she comes to our area only once in a while. She doesn’t live here year round, so that might make it easier. Thanks for your comment!
One quick question. Did you bf/husband(?) know the guy also? My wife knows a guy who would be into it, but I do not know him at all.
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I have thought of that…The only thing that keeps me from really worrying abou tthat is:
1. He’s 23, and we are in our 30’s
2. My wife knows him, but doesn’t hang out with him all that often.
3. He’s moving at the end of August. She told him IF we were considering this, it wouldn’t be until a day or two before he left.
Thanks again for all your insight. It’s definitely appreciated.
