the plan is to stay away from hair relaxer and keep my hair the way it was meant to be. every 2 months i have a hair treatment i then do afro twist to my hair to still get that natural look but still being able to tame and control my hair. i think we afro women think that the only solution to our strong hair is relaxing. i have spent so many times before trying to tame it and conform to how everyone else look straight long silky hair but for me it doesnt take long before my hair start to fall out. Through this i have grown to be positive about my hair and look at its benefits i dont need a mousse or gel to hold my hair up its already there. this are one of many things i can do to it. we can fight it or we can embrace it i have chosen to embrace mine.