No matter how much I say it. No matter how much I mean it. He doesn’t accept or believe that I don’t want to be with him. I want to be friends. But every act of friendship turns into him thinking I’m giving him a “vibe.” I want to not think he’s around the kids to be around the kids and realize he’s hanging around more because he thinks he will either get me back or get me in bed. Thanks to Wishlist and Caraboo, I have someone on the outside, to help me open my eyes.