dubvsunshine

get a boyfriend
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i have a problem where ill really like a guy and hang out with him, but the second i feel like he’s getting attached or wants more, even though im feeling the same way, i push him away. it works like a charm and i always lose him for good, and then i get upset but its too late.

Jul 20, 2006, 04:12PM PDT | 2 cheers


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Notasyetaflyer15

WoW

......thats something to think about. I haven’t been in too many relationships..so don’t take me too seriously. But maybe you push him away because your secretly insecure…and you would rather dump him, before he dumps you because he may think that you’re too clingy. Just like every other person your scared that he might just all of a sudden change his mind about you and not like you anymore.

Idk….I’m just being Keelie,
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Jul 20, 2006, 05:47PM PDT | Respond to this

pam076

my problem is kinda similar, but not really. i have this thing where i never want to talk to or hang out with a guy too much coz i dont want him to think that i like him, even if i do….i dont know, i dont get myself sometimes…

Jul 26, 2006, 02:26PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

purplekatz

SAME THING!

Hey, Pam! I have the EXACT same difficulty….I act like I don’t think the guy I may like is anything special cos I don’t want him to think that I do think he’s special! That doesn’t make sense at all but it’s like I’m trained to do it and of course, it never works out! HELP!

Jul 31, 2006, 11:32PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

pam076

confusing..

i know – it really doesn’t make sense! bcoz if i like a guy, then i shuldnt care if he finds out that i like him (or i should WANT him to know!). but instead, i end up looking snobby or a b*tch coz i kinda ignoring guys…but i can’t help it. i freak out and i’m scared ppl will think i like a particular guy if i act friendlier towards him. lol..i guess i’m trained to do it too!

Aug 02, 2006, 08:34AM PDT | Respond to this

Miss_Leeuwrik

Same problem here. Its like I want him for SO long, but then when something happens, I get nervous that I’ll mess up or something, so I push him back. I think your problem (and mine) is that we need more confidence in ourselves.

Jul 27, 2006, 01:13PM PDT | Respond to this


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