Too strange -I hadn’t seen anyone with anything like this before and tonight you are the third person & I’m not looking. It is just everybody names it diferently. Mine is “Stop Living in Limbo”. How can you really live when such a big issue is looming. Anyway -just letting you know you’re not alone. Also I noticed you have a son so don’t give up without a fight. You are so right about working on your own happiness. It does make a difference. My best no matter what!

I know how torn you must feel right now. I fought and fought for my marriage, until my husband told me (in so many words) that I should go to therapy to learn how to deal with him. Life after divorce may get lonely at times, but at least I don’t hate coming home anymore. I hope that whatever resolution you come to, you move forward with a greater sense of peace.

I have a couple of theories about this and am not really giving advice but just thinking out loud. Trying means that if and when you do give up, you have fewer regrets. You can always give up later but you cannot try later. If you don’t resolve your own issues, you’ll run into them again just with a different person.

That said, I personally finally gave up and it was the best thing for both of us. I don’t have many regrets because I tried terribly hard. I do have some of the same issues now with my fiance but I am SOOOOOOOOOOOO much happier.

Everyone’s situation is unique. Here’s wishing you luck in the journey.