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Does love at first sight exist???  — 2 years ago

I see this guy almost every day and find myself unusually attracted to him. The way he dresses, the way he just glances at me and especially his voice.

I have no idea who he is but I guess it’s not knowing that intrigues me. But then I always end up at the same question.
“how can I be so attrcted to someone that I don’t even know?”

And now I can’t stop thinking of him. Wondering if there is someone in his life. Wondering if he noticed me or is attracted to me.

I’m really scared of finding out the answers to these question as much as I’m terrified of not knowing.

Jul 24, 2006, 04:42AM PDT

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Jul 24, 2006, 10:50AM PDT

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Guess I won't take the chance...

This morning I saw him but just as I was gonna greet him a “SCHOOL GIRL” gets to him first. I mean she is barely out of diapers. And for the first time I was jelous. I have never been the jelous type and now I think that if I ever had a chance with him I lost to a girl who looks to be about 15.

So I’m not that much older than her but this morning was the first time that I felt old. Although I didn’t know her or him I felt rejected and unattractive.

Maybe I’m just looking for love and simply imagined what I thought I felt for him. Being lonely is a scary thought and love seems to be the only thing that could fill the hole I feel inside.

This time I’m just gonna let go of the one I never had. I’m not about to compete with a girl who is that beautiful.
He just wasn’t my guy.

Jul 24, 2006, 10:28PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

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Jul 25, 2006, 09:38AM PDT

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I did it.

Today I went up to him and started a general conversation. We spoke alittle about everything.

I found out his name and some things about him(wonder what he does for a living). And I’m more attracted to him now than before. Although I gave up hope yesterday, Advise from some close friend and the advise I got from you was exactly what I needed to hear.

I’m really grateful that You gave me the push in the right direction, Yesterday I was scared of being rejected so I decided to just ignore him. It was the wrong choice, so today I took a chance.

It’s a decision I’m glad I made. I will keep you posted on things to come. I really hope this ends up a success story. And it started with you and realisation that I could lose out on a good thing.
Thank You.

Jul 25, 2006, 10:29PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

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Jul 26, 2006, 11:00AM PDT

Just to let you know... - DivsSA
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shuMie

my experience

i am currently attached and i wanna share my experience with you.

You see, my current bf is someone I had met 4 yrs ago. we both have a crush in each other then. On my side, like you, I was questioning the possibility of Love at First Sight. I proclaim myself to be an absolutely logical person and Love at first sight doesnt provide me with the conviction to date him. ( he did ask me out, but i rejected him.)

We lost contact, regained contact, and got together eventually.

Was it love at first sight?

It sure doesnt hurt if u r to drop a Hi, Bye. and see where it takes u from there. Love is most likely to be reciprocated.

Jul 25, 2006, 02:40AM PDT | Respond to this

pam076

i don't know...

i’m kind of having the same problem now. there’s this guy i’ve been seeing on the bus to school for about 3 years now (we dont go to same school though), and i’d always thought he was pretty cute…and then this summer, we ended up going to the same place for summer school (but diff classes) and ever since then i seem to be seeing him more than ever..i saw him at church, at the mall, on the street, etc. i’ve started getting a huge crush on him, but i have no idea if he even notices me or what. he’s glanced at me a few times and i think he’s noticed that we seem to bump into each other a lot…but we’ve never talked or anything….i wish i could talk to him, but i’m TERRIFIED of doing anything!

Jul 26, 2006, 02:38PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

DivsSA is back on 43 things... :)

Take a chance...

I almost gave up on this guy that I am so attracted to because I was scared that he might not feel the same about me. But I don’t want to live my life with regrets.

So I took a chance and spoke to him. We hit it off and talk and flirt and laugh, all in a matter of two days.

So I don’t believe in chance meetings and if you see this guy so often take it as a sign. The best advise I ever got was to look him in the eye and smile. Maybe thats all it takes. He might like you as well but is shy or scared to do anything about it.

Living your life with regrets is worse than living to just exist. So don’t just exist, live and take a chance.
Good luck…

Jul 26, 2006, 11:02PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

pam076

thanks...

..for the advice. =) i saw the movie “click” the other day, and it made me realize that i wouldnt want to look back on my life and have a lot of regrets…lol…what an advice from a comedy movie!
anyways, i still haven’t done anything about my problem…if i see him at church this sunday, ill take it as a sign and smile at him!!

Jul 27, 2006, 10:41AM PDT | Respond to this


 

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