I couldn’t really help anyone with this, but here’s my story. My boyfriend and I decided to go on a break because of long and thoroughly discussed circumstances. I didn’t want to be friends with him anymore, I didn’t want to talk to him it hurt too much! And then one day I came home and had to find out through freaking Myspace that he had a new girlfriend. I called him up crying and and told his mom to wake him up. He told me that he hadn’t done anything with her, he hadn’t even kissed her yet. He’s never given me a reason not to trust him, so he calmed me down and told me to get some sleep. He still laughs about it because they were really more like friends than anything. Then he even told me he wasn’t sure if he loved me… I’m not easily deterred though, so I made the arguments and told him how I felt. Apparently it worked because the next day it was as if nothing happened. A couple months down the road we were talking about my trip to AZ and he pretty much said “Screw it! I want to be with you.” That’s the Cliff’s Notes version of our story. We’re together happily, he asked me to move in with him. I’m scared out of my mind to do it, but we’ll see what happens.