I used to be SO incredibly concerned with dating ect. until one day, i just didn’t care anymore. Instead of focusing on romance and dating i focused on my friends and enjoying every minute with them. After i did this i relaxed more and became more comfortable with myself, i didn’t need dating anymore. this gave me a whole new outlook on things and made me completely happy and independent. this independence attracted my current boyfriend to me (who just couldn’t resist my charms ;) ) and i couldn’t be happier. i found love as soon as i stopped worrying about it.

summary: you can’t be happy WITH someone until you’re happy BY YOURSELF