I know how addictive it can be to look at their myspace/facebook. You tell youself that it’s not hurting anyone, you’re not “actually” in contact with them- so who will it hurt? But it hurts you and sets you back in moving on.
Good luck on the 60 days! (I’m on day three- YIKES!)

Good luck. I think that 60 days of no contact will help just about anyone in that situation.

But I’ve taken pre-emptive measures. I’ve deleted his phone number from all my Caller ID boxes (I had it memorized, but forgot it after he moved in with me) and threw away everything he ever gave me, every picture, everything that even reminded me of him. So now I’m left with resisting the urge to email him, which I deal with my telling myself that he’s a lying, cheating sh—head and I’m better off without him in my life.

I still have imaginary conversations with him in my head, but they’re moving away from the everyday (I see something and think ‘oh, I should tell…oh, right’) and more to what I wish I’d said. None of these are nice things, of course. But hating him does make me miss him a little less…and eventually I won’t care at all.