I’ll be 45 on Friday and if it hasn’t happened yet it probably will not.

I’m with Juas. I sort of have to say it’s worth it because I don’t know any other way, but it has serious drawbacks. I’m very very marginal and paycheck-to-paycheck for years at a time. And I don’t think very many men are the least bit interested in a woman like that. Maybe if I were supa!hot or at least very friendly and nice, but I’m not. =/