... whether this is worth it or not.

I think too much of an issue is made of virginity, having it, not having it, keeping it, losing it. Its not like some miracle milestone that changes your life. Its the beginning of a journey of sexual self-discovery.

Sex can be a wonderful experience, but it takes time to discover ones own likes and dislikes, as well as developing a good relationship to someone with whom you can freely communicate those likes and dislikes. Openness, honesty, exploration, a sense of adventure, responsibility, safety and trust are all important aspects of a good sexual relationship.

So though losing ones virginity can be fun, it shouldn’t be a primary goal. The development of a rich, enjoyable, fulfilling and safe sex life should be the goal.