lots and lots of things to do, dear friend. You need the time you have to do them. :) I’m writing you a colossal email this very moment, and it occured to me to check your 43 things. I like this goal. I might add it to my list, because I never have. I imagine it would be a wonderful sensation. Warmth and cold. mmm.

if you have done that and you can`t remember, maybe it lacked the special ingredient. what is that?! well, i don`t know.

but you can do another thing that is more general, like you said, something like do everying again for the first time