this is a good aim for me right now, im about to move 200 miles away from home, and i got so much stuff niggling at me in the back of my head, im so afriad of falling flat on my face, im getting a transfer at work, and i worried in case the ppl there aint the same at where i work now, or if they do things differently there, BUT im never gonna find out unless i do it, its not like im leaving my parents on bad terms, and i know if it all blows up in my face, they would let me back home in a heartbeat :)