mintchip is trying to get back on track!
A helpful passage from the I Ching to combat feelings of hatred:
Do not hate. Hatred is a form of subjective involvement that binds you to the hated object.
Hatred is a product of evil. To the extent you allow yourself to feel hatred, to that extent you become an instrument of evil. When you hate someone you draw that person to you. Is that what you want? To eliminate the connection, dismiss the person from your thoughts. To combat evil, respond with goodness.

