I didn’t like the negative aspect of the old goal. So I turned it inside out, and I think this works much better for me.

“You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.”
(~from Desiderata)

The trick is that – in order to do this – you need to not really think about it too much! Just go with it!