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Not that I’d had mass amounts of sexual experience when I was younger (actually, none at all), yet two of the three partners I’ve had in my life were virgins beforehand.
The first had endured a bad relationship with an abusive ex-boyfriend—she’d gone “almost” all the way with him but never did take the final step. I guess she felt comfortable with me.
The second just happens to be my wife, who had her own reasons for maintaining her virginity before we met, and she just felt connected enough with me that she was ready when the time came (and, as she put it at the time, she just “felt like being a slut”).
I can’t really say whether or not this is “worth doing.” Both experiences obviously were major events in the lives of these women that they’ll never forget. And I feel honored that it was with me. Yet, at the same time, it sort of put the actual event on a pedestal, and neither time could exactly be counted as “satisfying” for any of us.
But, it happened to work out this way, and I’m still not quite sure why . . .