Honestly, until you’ve been burned a few times (or have witnessed the burning of others up close and personal) this is not something that happens just because you want it to. (Or maybe it does for other people. It’s difficult to justify making blanket statements on 43T!) If this were my goal, I might call it….trust my intuition….or act on my intuition. Unfortunately, there were times that I did things because I wanted them to be right or true, knowing deep down that I should just cut my losses and run like hell.