On the other hand, men who are cool and confident are viewed as “boring” and “too nice.”
Why is this? Do healthy, well-adjusted men need to start being obnoxious jerks so that women will like them?
we can’t help it besides some men are really just too nice
So being annoying as hell is a desirable quality? My suspicion that young women both hate themselves and the few men who deserve them is pretty much confirmed then.
There’s a difference between being a discerning, patient, quiet individual who chooses to let the beast out when he wants around those worthy of seeing it and being a complete simp.
I don’t really think that’s the case at all. I have a guy friend who is the sweetest kid on earth. He isn’t really loud or obnoxious or any of that. He’s just nice and fun to talk to. Almost, no actually, all of my friends have had a crush on him one time or another. Maybe some girls do have a thing for you. It’s really hard to approach the ‘nice’ guys with your feelings towards them. Well i guess what i’m trying to say is that nice guys are sexy too. no worriesss.
God, I hope you’re right. Let’s just hope the next time I see anyone who does have a thing for me I say or do the right thing to get the ball rolling. There’s actually been 3 or 4 times where I’ve known that a girl really close to me wanted to be more than friends, but I just didn’t know what to do with it. I know it sounds like a simple problem, but in the moment it can be anything but.
Awesome username, BTW.
You see? Girls do like the nice guy thing. It’s more appealing than the badass kids, in a way. Like, along with having a boyfriend you can have a best friend. That’s what’s nice about the good guys. I think maybe next time you should say something to the girl! lol and yeah i like my username too =)