Danadanadana This sucks, but I can handle it.
we seem to be sorting things out. We had fun together yesterday. He actually changed out of his slob clothes, and looked good! Eeew, those shoes he usually wears – yucky.
Anyway – he seems less demanding lately. I have forcibly reserved the weekday mornings for MYSELF buy using work as an excuse (even though I don’t really have to work, hee hee!)
But seriously, it has been tough for me to get on 43things for the past week, because when I’m at home he’s always there too, asking what I’m doing. Yesterday he was being snuggly in the afternoon, so I thought, – great he can nap on me, and I can read my book… but Nooooo – it would be okay if I was just staring at the ceiling, or napping too, but not reading a book. WTF?!
I actually told him he was needy once (about 3 months ago) – he WAY overreacted, and I’ve never heard the end of it.
SO I guess I’m not going to get any internet time or book-reading time in the next 2 weeks. The best I’ll be able to do is sneak away to the internet cafe occasionally (where I am right now).
Perhaps we need to do something non-interactive together – like go to the symphony, or movies or stuff like that. I just can’t pay attention to him all the time. I can’t.