I think am working on something similar. For almost ?? years I have been afraid to tell people how I feel (I did not want to hurt THEIR feelings). Even when asked for my opinion.

My first step on this journey ended badly and caused me to revert for many years. In my first attempt I basically became an A$$ (I was not focused on the “gently” part.)

You’re sick of surrounding yourself with “yes” men.

I’m with you, sister.

It’s so exhausting trying to wade through all that b.s. It’s so much easier to be upfront.

I, too, am trying to temper my honesty. Continue to keep it real, but don’t slice ‘em up in the process.

My best to you.

i need to adopt it… or something like it… I probably should emplasise the “gently” part in my case… (When I am frankly blunt, it’s often not gentle enough)

ah…