I’ve changed this from “learn to cope with loss” to “learn to let go gracefully”. There’s a big difference between simply ‘coping’ and letting go, I think. All sorts of unhealthy attitudes and behaviours can be coping mechanisms; letting go, to me, involves at least some level of mindful consideration and release, which can only be a good thing. And I add ‘gracefully’ because to do it right, it has to be a voluntary and peaceful process.