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I want to move out and be independent but still have a roommate/friend to hang out with. I thought, why not move in with my boyfriend? Yeah it sounds great at first but there are several things that make me hesitate. First, and foremost, we both don’t think it would be good for our relationship to rush right into moving in together. Yes, we do want to live together, but other things need to fall into place.

Since we haven’t even spent a full 24 hours together I thought this would be a great way to ease into it. And from there, a weekend together, and onto a week, and onto whatever.

We both want what’s best for the relationship. Time is on our sides, why rush?

Eventhough I may not be ready to move in with my boyfriend I know I’m ready to move out of my parent’s house.



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Emily is a starving [makeup] artist.

Congrats for thinking ahead!

I made the mistake of moving in with my boyfriend (ex) because it was convenient. My parents were moving and didnt really have room for me so it sounded like a good idea. It was a huge mistake. I lost a lot of my independence because i was around him 24/7 and slowly didnt have a need for anything else. But i was also pretty young and it was my first really serious relationship. With my new man, I’m doing things right. I’m looking for a place with a girl friend or two and making sure i have enough time to myself.


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