I have added this as number one on my list as although I do remember fun, feeling light, carefree I do not actually invest time or energy into putting this into my life. I am not working at the moment and its killing me!!!! Really hard for me to admit that learning to have fun is a much bigger goal than working to distract myself from life and all its unpredictability, which flipped over seems to me to be the same feeling as fun – you cant control fun, make it happen, plan it! It seems to come about when I let go of control in some way, let myself off the hook and the more I practise the more new ideas for pleasurable, exciting and motivating activities come to mind…..I hope that by learning to have more fun, I might just earn a living while doing it and feel alive rather than working all the time and having some sense that fun (life) comes later! Wish me luck!!!!