I’m okay with my timeliness (or lack thereof) patterns. And I think G is okay with them too now. I’m not late all the time. In fact, I am ridiculously early for work every day. If there’s a line-up to get in somewhere, then I am the one who makes sure we get there early. But I don’t care about being timely when I don’t appreciate the point of watching the clock. So what if I show up at a dinner at someone’s house 15 minutes late? Surely they will find something to occupy the time. But I won’t keep you waiting 15 minutes if I’m picking you up somewhere. I know you don’t want to be hanging around with nothing to do. It’s all about how your relationship with time is going to affect other people.

I think this issue was really about G & I growing as a couple. And I think we’re past this. Thank goodness.