I once heard the analogy of relationships are like a bank account; both people need to be making “deposits” in order for the “account” to succeed. If one person keeps taking and taking and the other person keeps giving and giving then it will never be an equal relationship. I feel that alot of people are so scared of letting go of people that are negative in their life because they don’t want to actually feel the disconnect.
I’ve let a lot of people go because they just weren’t good for me. It’s hard but something that, in the long run, is so much better for the sanity and heart.