I found myself getting jealous and showing it…not an appealing trait to have. Why are we insecure? Why does someone like a gorgeous celebrity who has “everything” still feel insecure? Because it’s not what you look like or what you have, it’s what you feel you’re worth as a person. And we’re conditioned, mainly in our youth, by our parents and peers to see ourselves in a certain way. I’d better work on this. If I truly believed that I was worthy of love, I wouldn’t feel threatened if my relationship went belly up.