Well I don’t know if this is a good thing I am doing, but I have elected to send messages to my Ex via my space. I started it out friendly and he responded friendly too, but as I don’t use my real name or any pictures of myself he did not recognize my profile. I just sent him another message with my name on it. I hope it works out well. He was a neat person and I don’t want to get all bitter. If it goes bad well, I can just block him, or make a new profile. I just don’t know. We had such a volatile relationship and multiple breakups.
He is now divorced with a young daughter. He is also going to be a combat medic in the military soon. I have my fingers crossed, but what will be will be.