There is a lady that works at my company, she’s got heavily facial hair, i haven’t seen her in a while but alot of people dont’ really like her. Not because she’s got a goatee and a moustache but because she’s a hard person to get along with, everything has to be her way, always cranky, therefore her facial hair stands out tenfold. It doesn’t really help her in getting to know people if she treats others like that, i think it’ll just make it worst.

I’m aware that not everyone is ‘good looking’ ‘beautiful/handsome’ but the least they can do is have their personality shine through with kindness and good heart, otherwise they’ll just become ‘a mean person that isn’t so nice looking’.

eg. shrek, though he’s ugly, but he’s got a good personality and kind towards others hence the donkey follows him around, in the end no one sees Shrek as ugly.

This is the same with the opposite as well, eg. Beauty and the Beast. The start of the story when the old lady asks if she could stay overnight and give him the rose, he selfishly denied and turned her away. This is a guy that is a prince, rich, handsome lives in a big castle and has servants to help him, except one flaw. He’s not a nice person, a spoil brat with no moral care for anyone except himself.. Though he’s got everything from the outside he’ hasn’t got what it takes to be someone on the inside.

The point i’m trying to make is the combination that we’ve been assigned with or by natures way choosen, of whether we’re:

combo 1. not-so-good-looking x mean-selfish-deceitful
combo 2. not-so-good-looking x kind-hearted-gentleness

combo 3. good-looking x mean-selfish-deceitful
combo 4. good-looking x kind-hearted-gentleness.

‘Don’t judge a book by it’s cover’ as the famous saying goes, this is true because when you see someone for the first time and lets assume that they’re not-good-looking, you’ll either a. ignore and disregard or b. make the effort and be friends.
When you choose a. it is end of story and you move on, but always thinking in your mind that this person is ugly. For the ones that don’t follow the rules but continue on making friends with them anyways will find out later on that the person isn’t so bad, the ugliness initially won’t ever be an issued ever again. Can you imagine having the worst combo, the person being ugly and as you try to be their friends, but finding out that they’re mean, unkind and treats everyone bad as if ‘the world’ owes them something’, you’ll not only see their outside ugliness but also see the true personality_, this is a lose/lose situation for them.

Moral and point of post:

Regardless of whether you think your ugly or beautiful be nice to people so they won’t use it against you. Nothing worst than being ugly and having people dislike you for your personality.
And the same goes for being beautiful but having a bad personality that people just don’t like. She can be a supermodel but with a heart of stone she’s no different than Medusa. eg. Shallow Hal.

One of my closest friends is a Cook Islander, naturally she’s larger in size and people tend to make fun of her. She wasn’t a person of looks because of her size but she had a great personality of which you’d want a friend to have. She was heaps fun to hang out with, people don’t see it this way though, all they see is her size.

My two little dogs, the first time they were brought home i thought one was cuter than the other. The ugly one looked skinny in the face, and didn’t seem happy most of the time whereas the other one was always playing around seeking attention. Over time i’ve grown more fond of the ugly one, i find her to be more cuter than the actual cute one. My friends would comment that one is cute and the other ugly, they just don’t know it yet which has more dogsonality.

(I hope this isn’t confusing for anyone that reads it)