I think it’s important for me to learn to deal with my past mistakes and stop beating myself up for things I’ve done that I can’t change.
I’m not happy with who I’ve been to some people, and these people are still my friends, which makes me feel even worse. I feel like I don’t deserve the people around me. I hate feeling like that, I’m probably not as bad as I think I am, I just let myself be so negative toward myself and it ends up causing a chain reaction of negative feelings…
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hundredwaters moving on, moving up~ spiraling into joy ~
forgiveness eases the pain of hurt feelings
it’s not an easy concept to work with, but it really does help. starting by forgiving ourselves for our human-ness, and it also gives up understanding for why other people do things that may seem hurtful. I really think we are all just doing the best we can at any given moment.
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Thank you.
I had a long, serious talk with my best friend tonight and she feels we’re drifting apart… I can’t let that happen, she means the world to me…
We’re going to try and talk more often and get together more often – I’m going to do everything in my power to stay connected with her because she’s the best thing that has happened to me in a long time, I can’t let go of it.
But thank you so much, I really appreciate the advice.
I’m kind of depressed tonight because my two best friends got in a fight over basically nothing and I’m afraid that could happen with my and one of my friends – I’ve just had a weird day and it’s not getting any better! Haha.
I’m beginning to feel better about myself – not just today. I mean, lately, I’ve been okay with my looks and my personality… I’ve been more open with my emotions and everything.
I just turned 15 and I think all the typical teen depression and mixed feelings have finally hit and I’m just not sure how to deal with these feelings yet, so I just blame myself for everything bad that is happening. I just make myself feel like shit and I know I shouldn’t – I haven’t got a reason to. But I’ll get through it, I know I will. And I look forward to a brighter time.
My brother and friends are helping me along with these feelings, too. They always tell me what a great person they think I am – I’m glad to have such amazing friends.
I used to have complete opposite friends and I think they wrecked my self-confidence and now I’ve just got to work and repair it again…
But, once again, thank you very, very, very much. I really do appreciate it a lot – I’ll definitely follow your advice and forgive myself for my mistakes.
You just made my life a little easier for me…
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