be a better conversationalist

Well im just not good at it  — 1 year ago

I don’t have problems talking to people, its just i have nothing to say and so everyone thinks im shy because of that, does anybody have any ideas of how to help this?

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I feel you

Hi you know I feel the same way. I am a shy person but really most of the time I just don’t have anything to say either. I think to myself sometimes that maybe I just need to do more things then I will have something to say. But usually it’s because I have limited knowledge on a particular subject matter. Have you figured anything out yet?

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conversation

does not depend on you and no amount of facts or information is going to make you a better conversationalist. What counts is your sincere interest in the other person, and their sincere interest in you. If you are open and honest with eachother, you will discover things about yourself you never in your wildest imagination believed to be present or true.

Knowledge in books stays in books. Just go out and discover people.


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