I am going to ask you to think about the title of this goal, “be someone’s first priority” How about,” be your own first priority”.

It’s a bit like the old saying about learning to love yourself. If you don’t then no one can truly love you.

As you go through life you may learn that what we always though to be love may not have been. More likely it was lust, desire or lonliness.

When you get to a point, where you realise that happiness comes from within your own soul rather than given to you by another, is usually when you are finally ready to be loved and to give real love.

all you do is think about that person. You obsess over them.

Do you call them and they don’t call back, you might wonder what’s going on, and then obsess over that to the point where you might drive by their work/home? ((I did this a long time ago, and it was a very low moment-which needless to say that relationship didn’t work out))

Anyhow, I’ve been talking alot with a friend I play racquetball with and basically we’ve come to the conclusion that, that kind of behavior is like an addictive personality. One might say obsessive personality as well. It’s where you do something so much, that you can’t seem to stop. I have this about certain things. Working on breaking my addictive bad cycles is hard but worth it. Plus I think many people want to be the first priority on their girlfriends/boyfriends mind, not like fourth on the list.

Good luck to you on this.