I have 3. One on my ankle, one on my shoulder and one on the middle of my back. All tasteful and unless its summer you can’t see them.
As a woman I didn’t find it that painful getting done and if your scared of needles getting one out of site ie on your back is best. The feeling is like someone repeatedly scratching you sore.
The only complaint I have is that they are addictive! I got my 3 done over a period of 7 years but I really really want another one or two but have refrained cause I don’t want to look tacky or cheap. I don’t like tattoos on the front of the body and prefer when they can be covered up when necessary. Men can get a way with a lot more and look sexy whereas women can’t (my opinion).
I may get more but small ones!