eBear is making changes.
to post this; I find many of my goals are really just facets of one larger goal, and so many posts weave into each other thread titles/goals.
I was feeling REALLY sulky and whiny and sorry for myself this afternoon, especially after reading a friend’s blog, and reading the comments that some of our other friends had left for her. They were just light, silly things, but they all spoke of her being closer with them than she is with me. Which is indicative of all of my friendships of late. I feel as though everyone has run off to be with other friends, and more exciting lives than my own.
Then I decided to do something about it.
I wrote to one friend asking her if she wanted to meet for lunch one day soon, and on my way home on the bus tonight I called another one – only got to leave a message, and she didn’t call back, but hey, I’ve been proactive. So I’m feeling pretty good, all in all.
I need to take these baby steps to get to a point where I can exercise assertiveness in all areas of my life, but especially work.